Hi Kat. I never told my therapist about this part of myself. We talked about everything else, but never this. I think that was a mistake on my part. I think you did the right thing. If therapy is to have any benefit, you have to be as honest as possible. I strongly encourage you to continue to talk about this, as you need to, with your therapist. It is safe, and they are bound by law to keep your secrets. Being able to talk about it openly will, if nothing else, likely help you understand your feelings better - that is the main thing to get out of it all. "What is this, what am I doing, what am I feeling, where is this going?" These are tough questions, and being able to talk about it will help you answer them and find whatever answers are right for you.
