Jenna, I have had a lot of experience dating. Both before my late in life marriage and since my divorce. I've also had experience with several therapists.

I believe u may be confused about what they do. Which is help u with personal adjustment issues. If u haven't told a therapist that u have adjustment issues with women in person, they couldn't know or help.

However, if u don't have issues when u meet a women, only a lack of opportunities to meet and date them, u need a dating service, not a counselor.