One of your points jumped rite out for me, Shana. At my advanced age, I've had lots of experience with a large number of women. I've given up trying to understand them and how u think. Recently, I've decided I'm not likely to ever understand what they REALLY mean when they say something!
When a woman says, "No", it can mean, "Yes", or, "Maybe". Or, something in between. And, can change from one to another in a matter of minutes. I'll never figure it out. And, my guesses haven't worked well either!
Which brings me to another point that may be MORE relevent here. When a TG asks if we, or states that she, "Feels feminine"?
How can I possibly know what that feels like since I've never been one and can't even understand women? How can any man?
And, that makes me wonder about TS's? Can anyone who starts out as a man, (Yes, I know u may not FEEL like men. But, how do u know for sure?), ever be able to think like a woman? No matter how many surgeries or hormones one takes, can one really become a she? Of course, his thinking, nature, and living traits will change. And, she may THINK she feels she's a woman. But, can a TS truly be COMPLETELY changed into a female enuff to think like one? Or, must it be something else? Maybe not male or female but something else that's different from both? If this sounds ignorant, it's because I am! I have no idea of what being TS is like!