Based on your post you are saying you are not transsexual ..
expressing your femme side in relation to your own reality is a great thing...
of course its best to be happy and at peace with yourself..but how crossdressers do that and how transsexuals do that is totally and completely apples/oranges.. thats a hard truth and is at the core of the OP
...is talking about that hard truth doable in a compassionate way? without hurting feelings?
your last paragraph mentions morals...
nobody is talking here about moral high ground....
are you implying that transsexuals posting about their transitions are staking out some kind of moralistic high ground?
