Sharing with the wife/SO...

[steff13]

I was in the same situation as suchacutie whereas my wife was curious as to what I would look like wearing her knickers , after a few drinks I agreed and my life changed forever ! that was 8 years ago ive never hid any crossdressing from her ,although it took her a long time to come around to the idea of her man in knickers ,bra and womens clothing . my wife is now quite open with me and asks questions , I still feel embarrassed putting bras on in front of her ,this will pass just like it did with the knickers . Along the way we have set boundries that I wasn't aloud to break until she was 100% ready . I gave her the time she required and now we go shopping together !! .

[Kelly Smith]

Question to everyone from a GG with a CDing Husband


Quick background on my situation: I came home early about a month ago and found him dressed. He nearly jumped out of his skin. I have no issues what so ever, I actually really enjoy CDing..but I digress. I just hugged him said hello. We talked a little that night about how long he has been doing it, but he didn't go into to much detail and he seems embarrassed that I know, I think he was just not quite ready to share. I want to know more, but I don't want to push. He talks a little about it, has even asked me to help him find a few things, but he says he is REALLY not comfortable dressing in my presence.

Do you share everything with your SO? Is it easier to out it all at once or build up slowly? Do you dress in their presence? Any other advise for my situation?

The same thing happened between my wife and me. She was displeased. The incident is described here: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...me.&highlight=

In some ways, our situation is the opposite of yours in that I would LOVE to Xdress in front of her - I am a bit of an exhibitionist - but she is creeped out by the whole idea of it. Maybe - in another thread - you could help us explore what magic touched you that lets you enjoy seeing your man crossdressed.

Advice on your situation is easy to give, because the giver of the advice doesn't suffer the consequences of being wrong. He can justify his blunder with cheap rationalizations. Keeping that in mind, I think there is little to be lost by taking it in baby steps and treating every step forward with casual, positive acceptance.

And good luck.

BTW, welcome to the site

[NurseSamGG]

Maybe - in another thread - you could help us explore what magic touched you that lets you enjoy seeing your man crossdressed.

Kelly,
Unfortunately, there is no magic that touches us GGs who like to see our man CD. It's basically the old saying "different strokes for different folks". Some men enjoy CDing because it's just the way you are and some of us GGs just like it. Can't be explained anymore than it's how we are and it's what we enjoy. While we all may have a different reason as to why we do the main theme remains we accept it and embrace it because it brings joy not only to the man we love but to us as well. Two way street :-)

Xoxo.....Sam

[Lorileah]

Kelly,
Unfortunately, there is no magic that touches us GGs who like to see our man CD. It's basically the old saying "different strokes for different folks". Some men enjoy CDing because it's just the way you are and some of us GGs just like it. Can't be explained anymore than it's how we are and it's what we enjoy. While we all may have a different reason as to why we do the main theme remains we accept it and embrace it because it brings joy not only to the man we love but to us as well. Two way street :-)

Xoxo.....Sam

Or as my wife told me "I wouldn't do it (as in wearing skirts or pantyhose @ the time) but if you like it and want to do it..go ahead". She thought I was nuts...she was right

[Mermaid]

Kelly

Unfortunatly there is no magic. I've always been attracted to "odd" or "taboo" things(acroding to the social norms) I don't see them as odd or taboo, just exciting. You can't really change what you are or are not into, you can only explore. Sometimes things can grow on you just as some things can lose their appeal, but you can force peiple into things...unless their into that.

I digress a little but I feel that finding a person with both relationship, personality and sexuality compatability is hard.