Quote Originally Posted by TeresaCD View Post
In a sense, Paula, I see that as positive - she's perhaps moving forward in her grief.
I hope things continue to improve as time goes by.
I think so too. Why is she angry? That is the question. Does she have a point? Can you two get past that? Good luck, we're all rooting for both of you. To your wife, if you ever gets to this point, this is hard for him, most of us haven't had a clue how to deal with this until fairly recently, we had no more frame of reference than you. The common instinct is to repress, hide, feel shame. We shouldn't, but that's what society has pushed on us. Sorry if it has hurt you, we didn't want that, but we literally had no way of figuring this out, until the present day. The information and points of view weren't there.