Quote Originally Posted by Rianna Humble View Post
but Anne cannot tell her what she (Anne) does not know - which is how far that will go.
But here's the thing, when Anne says "she doesn't know" I think she's being deceptive and engaging in another avoidance maneuver. I don't know about you, but I don't think people whould go on a full HRT regimen like Anne is doing unless they plan on eventually transitioning. Yes I know some "serious" CD's will do a low dose, but most of those who do that end up deciding they're TS anyway.

IMHO Anne "does know" but is simply avoiding stating that fact directly, because THAT is the sticking point. As I said, Anne wants to have her cake an eat it too, but that's not happening and Anne is miserable. All these questions Anne is posing are rhetorical....Anne "knows" the answers, but doesn't want to admit the answers because that will eventually lead to Anne having to make the choice. that she resents having to make.

Sorry Anne, but it's time to "put your big girl panties on" and say directly what you want and admit that doing that will lead to a divorce.

Veronica