Hi GG's, 2. questions please
All of you seem like reasonable ladies ,very down to earth and intelligent . I let my now ex wife know about me long before we married and before we had children together..For the first 10 years she didn't have any issues with my cding other than as long as she didn't have to be around or see it or the kids know whats the harm?
She never wanted to talk about cding even though she knew it made me happier to relieve the stress from the months of suppression's I went through to keep her happy..Now during my marriage I never went past the undies although I desired more that was enough to satisfy the the for ever nagging urge..
My family was always first and never did I indulge in selfish satisfactions ..But the last 15 years my wife had this habit of blaming everything that went bad in our marriage on my cding( which compared to today was nothing)..My question is ( sorry for the long intro most of you already know my story) Do you think that in time you may have your fill of your S.O.'s cding ? Just wake up one morning and say I can't handle this anymore.
There are many threads that hit the main forum about wives who just will not accept this behavior I can relate to those threads. But 90 percent of me feels that my marriage issues were not about my behavior I feel that my ex wife used that as a crutch..
Question number 2.. From reading a lot of these threads yourselves ..What did your S.O.'s do that may have been the difference from those who are un accepting that made you say ..Okay so he likes to wear female clothing big deal?
