Lacy, I understand that you have no frame of reference to allow you to understand transsexuals, but you really do go too far in comparing someone who was born female with a male body to an axe murderer.
You repeatedly speak of the original poster "wanting to become a woman", but if Lynn is indeed transsexual then that is definitely not the case. She cannot "want to become" what she is already.
You are hardly in a position to give Lynn lessons of morality since you admit that you have been lying to your wife by omission ever since you knew her.
Your desire to dress is not at all comparable to the extreme Gender Dysphoria that a transsexual experiences prior to transition. You are fortunate that you are able to repress your desire to cross-dress so that your wife does not discover it, but saying that you do this because you love her - and thereby implying that Lynn does not love her wife and children - is beyond the pale.
You urge Lynn to "be the father you need to be with your children". How is she to do this if her Gender Dysphoria drives her beyond despair?
