....She is interested in remodelling one of our spare bedrooms (we have two) so that when she can no longer sleep in the same room as me, I have a place to be. Maybe we stay married technically for a while ....
Paula, I can't help but think that your wife is really incredible to even think you can stay in the house after transition. She never signed up for that. You really have to think of this as a best case scenario and nothing to dread.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.