Nicely described in brief...
There are, of course, many theories over the centuries about the masculine and feminine...
In the big picture of your question, I would agree that their is a strong spiritual aspect being realized in what we do and experience in the process. Specific motivation and cause/effect eludes me as I get older and increasingly "know" less.
I do continue to sense that somehow this is about finding a (dynamic) balance at a spiritual level, here and now. Ripple effects out?
I do enjoy your energy in the quest for understanding and would encourage you to continue.
Kate