DebbieL
I don't think we're on the same page.
To me, crossdressing triggers sexual cues. Lipstick, mascara, stockings, heels and breast forms lead to masturbation in the end. You may be asking me, ''well what if your girlfriend had lipstick, mascara, stockings, heels and 34dd breasts?'' Well it's the same with porn. You see a vagina on the screen and you masturbate to it. If I get into a relationship, and this person I'm in a relationship happens to have a vagina, am I going to cut my dick off? No, because sexual stimulation with real people is acceptable.
Let's try to steer away from the guilt, shame or acceptance of crossdressing. I am way past that. My main concern is how my porn addiction has affected my social skills. Most of what you said involves a partner and I don't have one. My main goal from abstaining from porn is so that I can stop my addiction and improve my social skills to create relationships. I am all for letting the person I love know about my crossdressing.
I am sorry to read that you included religion in your argument. I was baptized and as a child went to sunday mass, but ultimately I am agnostic. I'm not sure if youtube links are allowed, but here is a shortened video of the youtube series a posted. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82...layer_embedded @ 1:35 I don't think christianity is ok with multiple sex partners.
