I don't know if I felt that I had one side or the other. I think what I felt was that everyone should play and socialize together equally.
My first best friend was my neighbor, which was a girl. I played with her almost every day between the ages of 3 and 5. I didn't see anything unusual about that. My first toys as a toddler were hotwheels, plush squirrel, and pseudo-legos, and a cabbage patch doll. I actually really wanted that doll when I saw it in a toy store window.
I was actually interested in both boy and girl games in kindergarten.
In elementary school I played soccer with the boys and volleyball or dodgeball with the girls. I actually remember in 5th grade when the girls in my class became interested in playing soccer with the boys, and this made me really happy.
I don't know if I'm bi-gender, two spirit, or agender.
