Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
We've had GG polls in the past when we had polls, we've had many threads from GGs who've said what they hated most about the CDing, and BY FAR the worst offense is a feeling that they've been lied to. You heard the girl on the radio show, she said the same thing. GGs see the unwillingness to share this part of yourself with her for so long as a huge betrayal of the trust that should exist between partners.
This is the paradox. You are afraid to share this with a spouse for years because you fear a bad reaction. She now knows and has a bad reaction. She is mad because you didn't share this sooner so she refuses to allow you to ever share it ....doesn't make a lot of sense to me.