Though thinking again, a couple of times when I went to the main LGBT<etc> club, and had a couple of guys (not many, LOL) express interest in me... that left me feeling vulnerable somehow. It wasn't anything particular I was wearing at the time, it was the switching of roles. And, to be sure, an aspect of it was the compliments a few guys gave me: a charge ran through my spine and I flushed. But that was a long time ago now, and these days people compliment my winter coats and not me.