Yes I know about electrolysis, but that's a slow and expensive way to go. Worth it for transexuals or full time crossdressers, but probably not for most of us or non-crossdressing males.

I hadn't heard of Vaniqua (also known as Eflora), but again, probably not worth it for the part time crossdresser. It does sound like what I was thinking of in my original post but it would have to be inexpensive and over the counter to really fit most of our needs.