Quote Originally Posted by MysticLady View Post
Speaking from experiences w/ the wife. They want equality but "also" want the old school on how too be treated. Want the cake and eat it too, comes too mind. A woman that wants equal rights will go out there and mingle w/ men in a manner that "she's equal and not subservient" but wants to be cuddled, caressed, admired, and "treated like a Lady". If you want too be treated like a Lady, then act like one.
I am extremely offended by this. You chose a woman who was willing to enter into a conservative tradtional religious based marriage. That's totally fine. But don't take what you percieve your wife to want/need or do to be an indication of what "women" want, need, think or do. It just does not apply. Just as I should not assume that what I want, need, think or do is what all women want.

Victoria you chose someone for exactly the qualities that you are talking about, it seems disingenuous to disdain her for them now.


Quote Originally Posted by whowhatwhen View Post
It always bugged me how people were so ready to toss an entire group of people under the bus because their SO "may" find TG porn while searching for CD information.
Sure, their SO may get upset but he/she is a grown person and doesn't need to be protected from the realities of life and the Internet.

Things may have changed but I remember a few posts saying how bad it was to "pervert" being TG by being anything but asexual, or more likely anything but straight.
REALLY?!? Is that why this forum is soooooo bizarrely asexual even while talking about sexuality and sexual activity? I'm finding many wonderful people and discussions here but that strange disconnect between everything here and anything sexual makes me feel like I'm in the twilight zone. I'm used to forums where adults have normal discussions, here it feels like there are holes where the natural references to sex would be.