Ask a Transexual

[Kimberly Kael]

That may be true for you, but I am not the least bit unsure of whom I am attracted to. As for "what sex they're supposed to be relative to", I'm not sure what that means but the standard of "supposed to be" doesn't have to apply to anyone unless you want it to.

No, those terms have well-established definitions; not ambiguous at all.

So when you say that you were heterosexual before and still are after transition, you mean you were attracted to women and are now attracted to men? Or that you were always attracted to men because you've always been female, but that people mistakenly read you as homosexual pre-transition? Or do you mean you've always been attracted to women, and don't care that for any observer who accepts you as a woman that you now appear homosexual?

No, that's not the least bit ambiguous.

I didn't mean that I was confused about my orientation, just that the words to describe it are confusing when you know I've transitioned and aren't sure whether it's relative to my assigned sex or gender identity.