Thanks Di - when I click the reply with quote, I don't get how to use it, it's just your post with some strange symbols (and me, a writer...!).
And thanks Mysticlady (or Victoria? - I prefer Mystic!). I guess you're just not allowed to reply to each post individually one at a time (as you do with emails) without someone posting in between, is that right? I don't do Facebook or any social networking, (not least due to malevolant ex husband) so am pretty bad at the stuff that most people are used to. xx