I get a sense of some statements bordering on belittling those who do not push their limits. That is not right. If a person is happy with CDing in private there is no reason for them to feel bad or pressured to go beyond that. As we've pointed out, CDing is a journey of self discovery and some have discovered, like Dorothy, "there's no place like home!"

I sometimes write about my experiences when out and about. I hope that these can be helpful and encouraging to those who wish to go out themselves, but they are by no means an indication that anyone has to go out.