No Lori, I don't remember about Chaz. :p
And here's a twist. When I was first with my SO, I didn't even want to call him by his male name when he was presenting male, just in case s/he just happened to be feeling internally feminine at that moment. lol. It took me about a year and a half to be comfortable using his male name in male mode. I never had a problem using her female name when she was dressed.
But yeah ... I agree if a CDer is dressed it's best to use feminine pronouns. Also, using the right pronouns with the presentation is one thing, but assuming that CDers who dress as women identify as women is quite another. If they do identify as women they are not CD, they are TS.
If I say I'm duck, it doesn't make me a duck. :There's a big difference between being TS, being Gender Non-Conforming, and being a CD.
