I "came out" to my guy about being a crossdresser after more than 15 years together. I would characterize his reaction as accepting, but not embracing. He's not interested in seeing me as Christa, but I feel relieved that I don't have to hide my drag bag anymore.
I'm not sure it's different coming out to a woman vs. coming out to a gay male partner. But I'd be curious to hear from other gay guys who have a CD partner. It's a rare breed of guy who has the confidence and compassion to be with a CD, IMHO.
