I am neither. I live in that in between realm missed here. Transgender. It goes far beyond the clothes for me, yet I was not born knowing all of this. As I did learn who and what I was, I also found I am not totally TS either, in that I would never risk all or die trying to become what I believe I should be. It's not easy at all. I don't fit in the CD or TS world. I can relate to both although that confuses people. So I'm that third label. There's not an hour that goes by that I don't think about it. But this is what I am and I'm doing the my best to achieve simple happiness. All I really want to have is peace