Too negative thoughts. You have to believe that what you are doing it right and then it is just a matter of not being too concerned about his opinion. Someone can have their own opinion about something you do, but it doesn't mean they discard everything else they think about you. So, I would just make sure he is not the last person to know...that might hurt him the most. Personally, I would just show up at his door this Thursday in a dress to break the ice...
