What a refreshing conversation! We envy women their soft skin, curves and long hair, and they envy our boyish butts. As already observed, if the typical GG spent as much time dolling herself up as we do every time we get dressed, most of them would be knockouts, but they take for granted the feminine ideal that we aspire to. I work hard to keep my girlish figure - diet, crunches, running, swimming, nothing that would bulk up my muscles - and I must admit, when I go to the pool in my skirtini, I have a tighter body than most of the women there, but they'd trounce me in the evening gown competition