Isha, when I look in the mirror I see a reflection of ME! Now 95% of the time I see the guy I am, the guy I accept, and the guy I have no problem with being. The other 5% of the time I see a beautiful reflection of the duality that exists in me. That is because I have come to a point in life that I am accepting of ME, those who need to know are ok w/ Me. As far as anyone else, Does not matter! There are a 1000 different combinations why we dress each unique to ourselves. So let's remove what is considered NORMAL in society, remove religion and politics and the PROGRAMING that is prevalent with such I don't know if there would be an issue with what anyone chose to wear. I do happen to know that the largest lajorty of CD/TG people I know or have spoken to are in the military or are VETS! Another thing I do know is that what is considered NORMAL in society is based on religious and political beliefs!
Point in fact is this, reality is no more than what we percieve it to be! If we are inclined to go along with what the so called powers that be dictate what is normal and acceptable, then we in fact allow that premise to shape and mold what reality is! Hmmmmm, food for thought aye!
I am the same person, the same human being, and the same individual regardless of what I am wearing or how I choose to express ME!!!!