JTOR, this is your response to Allie's post (#2), and I agree with Allie entirely. I don't see the point of a discussion that allows contributors to define, in this case, "transgender" any way they want. Without some agreement on what words mean, there is nothing communicated of any value. I don't see why people move away from words they don't like, even though they are perfectly good words with generally commonly accepted definitions by folks in the word business (Webster, et al).
I see myself as a pineapple, which falls under the transgender umbrella, in my mind anyway, and that's all that matters.