Go anywhere you want and "own it" as Lynn says.
The fact your wife is going with you is as good as it can get trust me. You will just be looked at as two ladies out enjoying a nice evening together.
Smile and be courteous and you will be just fine.Nobody is going to pay any attention to you other than to notice two ladies.
There are no tranny police out there to get you.LOL
Can't wait to hear how your night went!!