None of us are passable. We all have little things that will trigger the "it's a man" response.
You live in palm Springs. Don't ever worry about passing. Just go out and have fun.
My brother has performed in many shows at the Palm Canyon Theater. I went to see one of his shows 2 years ago and it was tranny night. All of the ushers in the theater were cd's. The people loved it.
Palm Springs is tranny paradise. Go anywhere you want and do anything you want to do.
Jodi