My wife has been very accepting. Recently we had some bumps that I shared about. My wife and I have been married 12 years with both of us having been married before. I think it was important to both of us that we were open minded. We shared liberal social views on sexuality for example. Although this has been difficult my wife was naturally empathetic to my situation.
I also want to say that it is easy to judge other relationships. Many people have said they would be so glad to have an SO as accepting as mine. And I am so grateful! However that does not mean it is easy to work it out. I wish just going out occasionally worked for me. I constantly feel the desire to be a woman. Yet I desperately want to take care of my wife and son. These things are hard to reconcile and I am ding my best. My wife knows that and that means everything to me!
Suzanne