My thinking, down to basics perhaps, is that, no matter how perfectly presented as female and in a female "package" if you please, a CDer is still a man. Never mind perfume or scents. I've had enough teachers, instructors, professors lean over very close, or sharing a map in close company, and, frankly, there's yet a male who's breath I find even remotely pleasant. On that thought alone I'd avoid a physical contact. Does this makes sense?
Ineke
