So... Just how straight of a guy are you??

[Ellie52]

I have a hard time understanding what part of my attitude is selfish, so many CD's.. so many opinions and varieties. I actually welcome that diversity of opinions.

And you still haven't explained what exactly would be so troubling. Like I said, if a CD's GG genuinely comes here looking for answers, I hope that GG is smart enough after having read ALL the replies that she cannot jump to any conclusions about her own spouse's sexual orientation.

I, for one, think it's more irresponsible to feverishly maintain this image that 99% of the CD's are as straight as x=y because it's just not true.

(little math humour right there, thank you, thank you.. I'll be here all night)

Nat - I apologise if I offended you. I dicnt mean to. What I was trying to say was that we need to promote ourselves as valid members of society. Not some weird schizophrenic type person who is quite happy to be married to a lovely woman but as soon as Janice and Deidre from CD's R us phone up he puts on a dress and goes man hunting for a few hours then returns home to his lovely wife and kids, and wants to be dad again
If your single - go to it , but if your married have a little respect for your partner and family.
If this is how you want to live your life by all means do it, but its not something to brag about.
i come here for threads like Tracii's recent post about going to the mailbox, and the interaction with the girls in the neighborhood.

Maybe Im just too old..but I think we shouldbe aiming to promote acceptance in the community not giving people an excuse to ridicule us....Getting off my bandwagon now....Ellie