Some of the disappointment with transition just has to be about the way society views us, treats us. Many who transition face real discrimination. I know girls who used to run companies, who, post transition, were happy to find work as clerks. Many don't find work at all.
Many of us lose EVERYTHING and EVERYONE to transition. It's remarkable to me that as few people regret transition as do.
Of course that website doesn't really point the finger at society, does it?
This is probably the only medical condition I'm aware of where:
1. The patient largely has to self-diagnose
2. The patient faces huge social pressure against seeking medical treatment
3. If the treatment is unsuccessful, the patient is blamed - "she shouldn't have done it!!!!"
