ok, am gonna reply before i read others posts so that i will be uninfluenced in my answer.

i definitely would feel embarassed by getting dressed in front of a spouse... and almost everyone i know for that matter. eek. that's probably because i am 99% closeted. but maybe a wife could love my little secret and it could rekindle the flame of our relationship?

maybe a reason for this feeling for the embarrassment is cultural conditioning embedded in our core?

it would be great if we could just be who we are and allow others to be who hey are as long as no ones forcing anyone into anything they don't wanna be or do...

specific items of clothing that make me feel embarrassed, none... although i do feel incomplete until i am as transformed as fully as can be even crudely (yet that has never stopped me from feeling and being in touch with my femininity even if just in my mind or birthday suit or dressed in any level).