I think I get part of what Kate is saying here. Especially when there are threads and posts made where people will state they wore such and such and it was good that it went unnoticed. So what is the point of wearing women's clothing but done in a way where no one knew they were wearing women's clothing?? Likely it is an internal thing of comfort, but yet the person wearing clothing in stealth does not want to be noticed. I can get that. Why do we wear women's panties or other undergarments? No one notices that at all.... I can get why someone would wear women's clothing in stealth, for their own internal feelings. I do not dress in any stealth mode personally, but I can see why people do.