Wild, you can try and push their buttons all you want, but you're not going to get a widespread acknowledgement here that we, human beings, are in fact sexual creatures, driven by sex (among other things) rather than side-tracked by it. We all know that men don't think about sex every five minutes, don't watch porn and do not masturbate at all, ever. Maybe the 'pigs' who stare at our (fake) boobs when we strut through the mall in our black miniskirt and 6-inch heels, but not us, cleanly shaven cross-dressers. To suggest that cross-dressing has (had) anything to do with sexual arousal for even a small group on this board is simply outrageous, even if any other gathering of cross-dressing individuals on the web proves otherwise.
Now it's time for you to get out of that ivory tower of yours and mingle with us commoners. You might even enjoy it :D
