I'm not sure what you're trying to say. so we'll have to guess. 'Still in the O phase'? What is that, perpetual orgasm? Perhaps while crossdressed? Now then.Originally Posted by Wildaboutheels
Like some others, my crossdressing started way before I had any sexual feelings at all. So there was no connection to orgasms, still isn't. Sure, sometimes I masturbate while dressed as a girl, but it's pretty rare, mostly it's the pretty standard guy with a fantasy of whoever I saw in the most recent provocative state either in real life, magazine or movies. That's never changed since I was a kid; it's not real complicated, it's over pretty quick to satisfy an urge, then I move on and get back to work (boy would my employer hate to think about that going on while I'm 'on the clock'). However, I do understand the desire of people to want to feel as normal as possible, so they will often insist that what they experience, everyone else must have also experienced, or are simply in denial. Also, there are a lot of people here who will insist that 'they are born that way', because that excuses them from any responsibility at all of their predilection towards female feelings. Then you have the situations where there are mixed influences, and that's where it can easily get confusing. Be what you enjoy being, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. If your crossdressing involves sex, go for it. Get as wild and crazy with the clothes as you can, indulge in whatever fantasies put lead in the pencil! Life is way too short to worry about what other people's opinions are about our sexual enjoyment.
Oh. And as far as turning into little old asexual grandmas, ain't gonna happen. I've felt like a 14 year old girl now for almost 40 years, and don't think that's going to go away any time soon. While there are some guys who's testosterone levels deteriorate and the sexual desire goes away (and there are certainly times when I would love to not be distracted by the sight or smell of a hot babe while I'm trying to concentrate on something more serious) I dont see that ever happening. Pretty women, and thoughts of sex are too enjoyable to ever disappear just because I'm not as able to be the sexual athlete anymore.
