I hope this has not been asked before?

Any of you ladies ever feel "inadequate"? [from reading a lot of the advice here] That you are not lady enough? Or that you are not doing your hair or nails right? Worry that you might be busted out in the RW as a MtF crossdresser? Maybe your hands are too big to belong to a GG. Or your voice too deep? You don't walk correctly in heels .[I think one of the heel experts here said a woman needs to lead with her breasts. Any of you GGs do that? Or have any female friends that do?

Me, I think a GG can be "feminine" sporting nothing but a silly smirk on her face and wearing nothing but a well worn burlap bag and a beat up pair of flip flops. Throw in a little twinkle in her eyes and she could be mesmerizing. To me at least. Obviously, I am no expert on the matter...

Seriously, the whole "feminimity"/must do X to "pass as a female" has to wear on you?