All of the above. I'm not sure if I get 'busted', I assume I do, but everyone treats me with the respect due a lady, so I'm not sure what they are thinking. I've been going to LBGT friendly places like Wal Mart, Disney World, the bank, and the dry cleaners, and McDonalds all my life. I also work part time at a gay bar.
I hope that answers, or confuses, all your questions.