You are hungry for what you are hungry for.
My wife not only knows I'm Bi, we have talked about it extensively. She accepts it and LIKES it. She knows I'm committed to HER and US. She still fantasizes about me getting railed by a bunch of guys.
Would she ever actually arrange that? probably not.. but fantasies are just that. The brain is the biggest sexual organ in the body. It should be free to play.
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- MM