Yes, it has changed me. And not in a good way. The more stories I read, the more I am certain of just how bad the situation is for us. The number of women who might be interested in dating us is a horrendously miniscule percentage of the general population, so much so, that random dating isn't ever likely to find anyone compatible with any of us. Sure, once in a while some guy will 'win the lottery' and write it up here, celebrating his joy and his incredible luck, but the rest of us can only look on, and wish 'what if'.