Well. If the S/O didn't know about the femme side, then they aren't missing out in my opinion. Neither is one who is accepting and/or supportive. The main idea i was asking was do you think that a S/O who is unsupportive "DA/DT" interaction limits the relationship. Whether or not there is a division of your drab/femme personality, they always know about it in the back of their head. I'm not knocking mullets, but when i see a pic of someone with a mullet and talk to them, the mullet image is always in my head. I am just saying there is a REASON that the S/O is unsupportive, a psychological one in most cases. Im not saying if you don't like your man in lingerie, you're nuts, just that the issue is a personal one.
To connect on a truly deeply level, you should be willing to endure, not necessarily participate in, all parts of your S/O's personality. The main issue with us was i got into her clothes (so ladies, learn from me and respect boundaries). This was never meant to be a vent, or anything but boredom allowing thoughts to run unfiltered through my keyboard.
