Hi Michelle,
Interesting because my wife while she supports me is not interested in meeting other CDers or CD/GG couples. She feels she has no common ground with them (albeit we all kind of share the same thing). I don't begrudge her this because it is her decision not mine. So if I do meet up with other CDers it is on my own time. My wife and I agreed that when we go out we go out as a couple (boy and girl not GFs) and that is a line in the sand we don't cross.
Perhaps if you just effect a tactical retreat from this issue she may come around in the future. However in the meantime I am assuming she does not begrudge you the ability to go out with other CDers.
Hugs
Isha
