Hi Tink, this may sound odd and hypocritical but I honestly don't really get CDing. I'm not putting it down each to hers/his own, I just don't get it. I've transitioned, my body now matches my mind, I would get nothing out of dressing up like a dude. I didn't do all this because I liked the feel/fit of the clothes or preferred more feminine colors or even because I felt sexy. Those things may be true to an extent but I would not have blown up my life for clothes. For me it was all about my body being wrong and with that not getting to live my life. I don't really get the sexual thrill thing either How can a gentic male want to have sex as a woman, be it with a boy or a girl, and yet not want to be a woman? As far back as I can remember I was always a girl in my sexual fantasies, I was almost always with a guy in my fantasies too. I felt that way wether I was dressed in girl clothes or boy clothes or no clothes at all!
Do I think TSes and CDs are totally different animals, or are we just at different points along a line between male and female? I don't really know and the answer to that question but either way I'm pretty sure the differences are greater than the similarities. For what it's worth I think there is a divid between myself and GGs on that gender line too however I'm much closer to female than male if that's even how it works!
That's just my two cents worth.
P.S. thank you for coming over to hang out with us, I wish more GGs would stop by and don't fret you've done nothing wrong or said anything offensive IMO.