Yes, your English is fine. You question whether cross-dressers are typically good observers. Well, I believe that there are some traits that are more common in this group than the general population. Here are a few:
1. Cross-dressers are introspective, (self-conscious, and afraid of what others may think of us.)
2. Cross-dressers easily empathize with people.
3. Cross-dressers often describe their childhood as being, sensitive, gentle, non-aggressive, submissive.
4. During their teenage years they often have a low self-esteem and poor social skills.
5. They don't want to be dominant (alpha) males and they don't admire males who are. (As a child they were more likely to be bullied, than to have been a bully.)
6. They grew up believing that girls have it better in life, and they have never noticed that society values males above females. They seem completely oblivious to the sociological principle of "male privilege".
I am sure that cross-dressers share other commonalities but those are the ones that come to my mind at the moment.
