I dunno Kim, I'm inclined to think "where there's smoke, there's fire." Look at the typical TG fictional story plotline:

- man in panties gets discovered by evil domineering woman
- he's blackmailed into becoming her sexy ******* servant
- the story culminates with the hapless man, now most decidedly a her, thanks to breast implants, performing oral sex on another man.

These are very common fantasies. And no, most won't act on these - for one thing, having someone "force" you to do something you desperately secretly desire is a pretty unlikely scenario, and most lack the courage to act for themselves. (And there are all manner of practical problems even if they do.) Still, I wonder if the world were a bit different, if more of us wouldn't indulge in these fantasies.