hey Patti....my sister was the VERY first person I came out too but it was a unique situation.....We kinda had a coming OUT party....she wanted to tell me she was gay....I told her that was awesome...and I like to put on a dress ! We have a very good, but rather unique relationship. I dont know your situation, but girls have an easy time digesting our lifestyle.. so..in my family its one lesbian...and 1 crossdresser...yup.