I am so happy for you! I told my wife after 25 years of marrigae in a letter also and luckily it worked out well too, kind of a scary couple of weeks went by I think she was scared of what came next. But we came together and after another almost 10 years we are both comfortable and can talk and even share tips. I did think knowing her personality and beliefs that it was going to work out. I read and hear lots of storeis of it not working. So we are lucky we married women who love us for who we are not what we wear.