Thanks for the replies everyone!

Nicole: Yes, it seems like it's an ongoing thing *rolls eyes* Haha, and yes, women go through the same thing, particularly tomboys. 'You don't walk/talk like a woman.' It's kinda sad though, regardless of what identity you come from.

Michelle and Dana: Thanks

Kate: Haha, I guess so ^_^ She seemed very involved in labels lol

Andy: Of course I'm still here! You guys and gals are awesome, so I won't be going anywhere if I can help it Besides, even though I've discovered I'm not a transguy, it doesn't mean I'm not still a bit swishy when it comes to gender

ReineD: I think that androgyny has come to be equated in the LGBT community with fashion stereotypes of the term. Or at least, that's all I can figure from doing a Google search lol For me, its having the ability to dress, act, and behave however I feel like without acknowledging a particular gender role, whether it's wearing a dress and heels, a suit, or a combination of men and women's clothing. I do think she was naïve but I suspect her opinion came from excessive exposure to those labels Ironically, by the end of the conversation, she tried to claim I was the judgmental one because I didn't believe people fit into labels lol