Julie, were you embarrassed by the CD so avoided sex? Or was it because crossdressing WAS sex for you and you didn't really need a partner?
My H was also a late bloomer apparently though I sure didn't notice this by the time we metBut then, he's since acknowledged that CD is very much tied to his sexuality. If you look up paraphilia you'll find most men with one struggle to start a typical sex life as their fetish essentially fulfils this need, at least temporarily.
If it wasn't about sex, then I'd be curious as to what came first - did the crossdressing compensate for not feeling appealing to women, or did the crossdressing MAKE you feel unappealing to women?
Or neither??![]()